If you have ever been to the island of St. Kitts, you
probably remember the monkeys. Island
lore says the monkeys came with the French settlers in the early 1600’s as pets. When the French left the island several years
later, they left the monkeys to go wild.
The monkeys now outnumber the people on the island and have adapted to
be pests to local farmers.
Some of the locals have taken advantage of the mild mannered
disposition of the monkeys. As you walk
into the central square from the ship port you will see a few of the locals
walking around with 2-3 Green Vervet Monkeys on their shoulders. They are cute – complete with matching
outfits in St. Kitts colors, a diaper, and willing to jump right on a stranger. The
monkey wranglers quickly try to put them on your shoulders and offer to take
your picture with them…and want a few dollars in exchange for the opportunity. It is a novelty, fun for a few minutes
diversion, and inexpensive souvenir shot – but you don’t want to keep them too
long. They can start to pick at you,
climb where you don’t want them, and might end up costing you more than you
want to pay with a pushy monkey wrangler.
Monkeys can have a similar effect on managers and leaders. You’ve experienced it.
- A member on your team
approaches you with a problem and not sure how to handle it. You find it easier to take care of it
yourself than coach them through it and now you have their monkey.
- A new project or task is assigned
to your department. It should be
passed on to one of your staff, but it is something you like to do. You keep it and now you have another
monkey to manage.
- A staff member approaches you about a task. You tell him you will think about it and get back to him. Another monkey jumps on your back.
Limit the monkeys by taking three steps:
- Keep the monkeys where
they belong. Ask open ended questions
with your team when talking about issues.
Ask them what they can do.
Ask them to evaluate the options.
Ask them when they would like to give you and update on the
progress. By doing so, the monkey
stays with someone else instead of landing on your shoulders.
- Commit to developing
people. Chances are that you grew
in your skills and knowledge by taking on new and challenging projects that
stretched you at the time. Your
team needs the same opportunity. Pass
that favorite task or project onto one of your team so it can become one their
favorites. Provide details, be
available for questions, but let them manage the monkey – even when it is favorite
one that might not seem like a monkey.
- Recognize and control the monkeys. Just as the uncontrolled monkeys on St. Kitts can cause problems, so can the unchecked monkey with your team. The monkeys were just pets until no one was watching. Keep the monkey population low by assigning monkeys to a person with a deadline and provide the needed opportunities to check in on their progress.
The monkeys you accept will cost you at some point. Be intentional about which monkeys stay and
which ones stay where they belong.